Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Listener Than Speaker
8:52 PM
Hmm..
I have thinking about this quite long...
I have been much a listener than a speaker..
Friends shared issues, matters, secrets and problems with me...
I listened and try to give my advice...
See if i could just help a little,
Cause its better than nothing isn't it?
I listened and be their audience cause i know,
They would break down if they held on the problems too long themselves...
Sometimes sharing it makes you feel better,
Because you are not facing it alone..
And often after listening,
"Thank you" is always the last phrase they would say..
And well,
Nice to hear it but really,
I didn't do anything at all..
All i did is to listen..
I don't even know whether my advice have helped you...
But still they will still say it to me...
And i start to think about myself...
Have i been sharing anything?
I admit i keep things to myself...
And basically i don't share any...
It's not like i'm not treating you like a friend/close friend/best friend or you are not trustworthy..
It's just that i don't know how to open my mouth to talk about my problems..
How should i start it?
And i think basically im not the type who would share i guess...
Everyone has their own problems i guess..
So if the person doesn't show any sign that he/she is facing any problem or just because he/she has been cheerful, happy means that he/she is carefree...
The person still need your concerns i guess..
And i guess some people just don't wanna add load to another person by sharing their problems...
So i guess, don't just assume that they are fine :)
