Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Looks
4:48 PM
Is looks everything?
Does looks weight more that the feeling,inner self, character or personality?
Often, people are stun with this type of question..
Because if you say looks doesn't weight more,
You could be contradicting to yourself..
Because often, people will always look at the appearance first..
And there will be a certain percentage in your heart that you give that person..
And whenever there's a pretty girl or handsome guy, you will automatically stick your eyes on to that person..
So its really difficult to judge whether looks are really everything?
Well,
Sometimes that is through understanding that we get to know more and better about that person.
And sometime,
Feelings are developed when you get to know more about that person and got attracted
And by that time,
I guess the looks doesn't really matter anymore right?
I always liked this sentence " Looks are always just a bonus :) "
Could be utterly true..
Because its hard to find someone who understands you and you understand him/her..
All the warmth,caring,love,sweetness,joy,sadness he/she gave you are irreplaceable..
So perhaps whether he/she looks pretty/handsome is just a bonus you get if you manage to find that someone..
I was pretty stumbled when my friend ask me what type of boyfriend that im looking for..
Because i had no answer..
So he guided me..
When came across of this question " appearance? handsome/average/bad matters?"
I voted average but of course appearance don't really matter just prefer average..
So i guess im half half? half of appearance matter and half of appearance not matter?
Im contradicting..
So i said depends on how well i know that person :)
And i asked back him, what type of girls do guys like to find..
He said " All guys are looking for the same type of girls.."
"Caring,Sweet,Pretty,Warmth"
And i caught the word pretty..
So i guess i will never be a choice for any guys XD
Oh well but i must agree..
I guess all guys are looking for the same type of girls
And all girls are looking for the same type of guys..
But somehow god always let us to be mismatched huh?
Otherwise there won't be so much of a relationship problems eh?
